As a single dude, the idea of the “Friend Zone” can be often encountered subject. Lately, I feel like I’ve been seeing this subject pop up online around me with more frequency in blogs and comments, and other articles.
Well, It got me thinking.
Truth from my the brilliant mind that is my older brother =)
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A very, very well written answer to a question that’s just plain old stupid.
If you’re experiencing the Nice Guy Syndrome, you put yourself there. If you’re in the Friend Zone, you put yourself there. The girl or woman that you’re after didn’t put you there you did.
MAN UP. FIND YOUR BALLS. GET OUT THERE AND BE THE KING THAT YOU ARE AND CLAIM YOUR KINGDOM, IDIOT.
hello, everyone hating on victoria’s secret models needs to take a look at this.
going to try and follow this meal plan for tomorrow!
Share your secrets girls! And, yeah stop with the hate on these women. They work hard for everything they have.
1. You might break a nail.
2. You could even bruise a male ego or two.
3. You’ll eat properly and still be able to lose fat. Work of the devil!
4. You’ll look more like an athlete and less like a runway model. Skeletal is sexy, right?
5. You’ll be able to lift heavy things without asking a man for help, thus upsetting the balance of the universe.
6. You will be seen in public without high heels.
7. You’ll grunt, sweat and feel sore. So unladylike!
8. You’ll be proud of your pert bum instead of being self conscious about it like a normal woman.
9. You’ll be more active and confident instead of sitting around looking pretty. What are you, some kind of feminist?
10. You’ll be stronger, leaner and sexier – and we all know where that can lead!
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I saw this post and I asked myself, “Why shouldn’t I consider her an option?” Seriously man? 1. Your grammar is wrong. “No girl deserves to be an option.” or “No girls deserve to be options.” are correct. 2. If you’re not looking at her as an option, she definitely is.
It’s a dis-empowering, delusional, and castrating statement.
“You sound like a dick.” I have one and a solid pair of balls.
Woman, you are an option to me just like I am to you. I strive to be the best option available to you. I have expectations, standards, factors of attraction, just like you. They are equally high in regards to myself as they are to you. You and I will match or we won’t. Will it kill me that we don’t match and you go after the next option? That will depend on our connection but you walking away to someone better simply means that I must improve on myself and be the best.
It’s a heart-win, heart-lose world out there for a single guy. Between the flowers, presents, and chocolates, the wining and dining, the creepers and the crazies, nice guys and assholes, it’s competition. And you’re fair game.
I am a gentleman, desiring the desirable. I give chase until the value of such pursuits no longer pleases me. Not so much a ladies man, but a lady’s man.
Be the best option for me, until then my options are open.
Your masquera outlines the era of the mask,
the generation of the generic.
Laying down foundation for fake faces
and brainless taste in
post-modern couture creation.
Sex sells and money is safe haven,
so you bathe in the shallow end
of misogynistic eyes,
making sure your thighs
are just as smooth as your lies.
Your caramel-covered curves cut caves
into the helpless hearts of half-witted men.
You have them hoping they stand a chance,
and with every glance you lead the weak to peril.
You’re a tease,
but more to yourself than others.
You seek the affection of those who despise you
yet don’t recognize those who give you attention.
Life is cruel and you feel it.
So cover yourself in everyone’s fantasy
until even the sharp-minded can’t see
that you still sport a costume
even when you’re naked.
Now your body is public
and your mind is vacant.
You think with your eyes
and you threw away your heart
because it weighs too much
and your stomach is already starved.
Another layer of make-up
to make up for your empty soul,
because you sold that one for
designer shoes and a fur coat to fight the cold.
The era of empty shells,
The age of ageless skin,
You are perfection to the naked eye,
but a just mannequin within.
I got this from the Team Beachbody website. It’s a great reminder why women should lift weights. It was written by Whitney Provost.
When you’re weight training, you shouldn’t rely exclusively on the scale to gauge your progress. You can use a body fat tester or a tape measure to track how many inches you’re losing. The size of your body will shrink as you shed fat and build muscle, but your weight may not change as dramatically as you expect. Besides, what’s more important, the number on the scale or how you look in your skinny jeans?
If you’re still not convinced that you need to lift weights, here are 10 reasons why you should reconsider.
Read it and LIFT!
“Nice guys finish last because they put their women first.”
The title is a true statement in a sense for most guys but it’s a really general statement. I feel like going on a rant. Let’s break this down shall we?
There isn’t anything wrong with putting your woman first when it comes to certain situations. Being a true Gentleman, you’ll know the times that you will put your woman first. Those are times when she needs to be comforted, listened to, guided. But that doesn’t mean it should happen all the time.
Hopefully you’re with a woman and not a girl that wants attention of all sorts all the time. She’s grown and a mature adult. She’s got her big girl shoes on and she’s tough enough to fight her battles on her own and if she really needs the help she’ll come get it.
Bottom line here is Nice Guy, YOU finish LAST because YOU put HER in front of everything and everyone. You lose your worth and your respect from her and she takes advantage.
What’s all this crap about “ASSHOLES” getting all the Nice Women? First, assholes may get the girls but they don’t keep them for long. And that’s what they’re getting girls, not women. I’ve been there and I’ve done that lots of times and have hurt my fare share of great, great girls and I attribute their now better choices of men to my failings. It doesn’t last and if you’re a woman out there with an asshole and are still trying to make it work, he’s more than likely screwing you over. Sometimes you gotta let shit go. Oh and where does shit come out…yup ASSHOLES.
I’ll give it up to those punk, wanna be GENTLEMEN. They’ve got 1st Place when it comes to confidence, and in that race YOU, Nice Guy, are 2nd to the FAT GUY. You don’t come with it, you ain’t gonna get it. Confidence is like catnip to women. Stop being the damn scratching pole and litter box. Get that kitty and for God’s sake man, POSTURE UP!
You’re an easy mark. You’re the guy in waiting. You’ll jump through hoops on fire, while being shot at, chased by ravenous hyenas, to get her to pay attention and ultimately like you. You’ll give up serious time for reasons that get you nowhere. Hey it’s nice for her but what is it to you? “Every moment with her is precious!” WTF was she forged by Sauron?
Sorry, she’s still not your girl and that’s what you want.
Ok, ok, I don’t want to bash you all night. It’s good that you’re a nice guy. You have the foundation. You are dependable, responsible, a good if not great friend. Relationships that start with that kind of foundation LAST. You’re the guy she’s referring to when she’s hanging out with her girls. That perfect guy. You are what she wants. You have it already. You just have to find it within yourself.
“I’m not an asshole. I’m a nice guy with an angle.”
Find your angle and capitalize.