As a single dude, the idea of the “Friend Zone” can be often encountered subject. Lately, I feel like I’ve been seeing this subject pop up online around me with more frequency in blogs and comments, and other articles.
Well, It got me thinking.
Truth from my the brilliant mind that is my older brother =)
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I saw this post and I asked myself, “Why shouldn’t I consider her an option?” Seriously man? 1. Your grammar is wrong. “No girl deserves to be an option.” or “No girls deserve to be options.” are correct. 2. If you’re not looking at her as an option, she definitely is.
It’s a dis-empowering, delusional, and castrating statement.
"You sound like a dick." I have one and a solid pair of balls.
Woman, you are an option to me just like I am to you. I strive to be the best option available to you. I have expectations, standards, factors of attraction, just like you. They are equally high in regards to myself as they are to you. You and I will match or we won’t. Will it kill me that we don’t match and you go after the next option? That will depend on our connection but you walking away to someone better simply means that I must improve on myself and be the best.
It’s a heart-win, heart-lose world out there for a single guy. Between the flowers, presents, and chocolates, the wining and dining, the creepers and the crazies, nice guys and assholes, it’s competition. And you’re fair game.
I am a gentleman, desiring the desirable. I give chase until the value of such pursuits no longer pleases me. Not so much a ladies man, but a lady’s man.
Be the best option for me, until then my options are open.
"I do not want to be the leader. I refuse to be the leader. I want to live darkly and richly in my femaleness. I want a man lying over me, always over me. His will, his pleasure, his desire, his life, his work, his sexuality the touchstone, the command, my pivot. I don’t mind working, holding my ground intellectually, artistically; but as a woman, oh, God, as a woman I want to be dominated. I don’t mind being told to stand on my own feet, not to cling, be all that I am capable of doing, but I am going to be pursued, fucked, possessed by the will of a male at his time, his bidding."
Anaïs Nin (via lawsofmodernman)
SHE KNOWS WHAT THE FUCK IS UP! Night friends =)